June 2015

June 2015 Sharing Time - Week 4

Welcome to June's Sharing Time Linky!

Did you catch this week's post about choosing love & happiness?
I'd love to hear what you think in the comments over there!

Our Summer Holidays have officially started here, so this round-up of over 25 Snacks & Treats for Summer Break will be coming in handy for us- be sure to check it out & pin it for reference if you haven't already!

There are some great ones on there & the post is featuring many of you who linked up to the Sharing Time Link Party last month!

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Choose Love, Choose Happiness

So much of this life is about choices.  Choosing to love, to forgive, to be patient, to be kind, to be happy, and the list goes on and on!

Today I want to tell you a little about where my thoughts have been lately.

Perhaps you've noticed that I haven't been blogging as frequently as usual. I went through a few rough weeks which led me to spending a lot of time thinking about things and life in general. Just over a year ago, I published a post on this blog about happiness and being happy where you are. I wrote about how we had expected Ken to be finished his PhD and started on something new in time for the girls to start school in the Fall of 2013. When I wrote that post (a year ago), I said that things took longer than expected and we were then hoping for a finish date for his PhD in July (of 2014).

In that post, I wrote about how focusing on the future can make the present feel like "not enough". It's interesting that I was dealing with those feelings a year ago, because now, a year later, I have been dealing with them again and struggling to remind myself of what I felt I had figured out a year ago.

Last week, Ken & I drove to Toronto together to hand in his thesis. I am so excited that we have hit that milestone! We are still at least a couple of months away from his defence and are hoping for a finish date by the end of this summer, but little things keep happening to make things take a little longer and a little longer. It can be difficult not to focus on that end date when it has slipped away from us and been postponed so many times over the last 2 years.

I tell you all of this, to give you some background before explaining some things that I have taken away from a book I've been reading.

When I agreed to review a new book called Love is a Choice by Lynn G. Robbins, published by Deseret Book, I was expecting a good book that would put things in perspective and give me ideas for how to strengthen my family. That's exactly what I got, but I also got a lot of encouragement for dealing with this stage in my life where I am finding it a challenge not to be dragged down by circumstances that are not what I expected or hoped for.

There is a chapter in the book called, "Choosing Happily Ever After" that talks about the power of choice. It uses an example of three brothers who face the same situation in life.  Two of the brothers are constantly complaining about their less than desirable circumstances. They are so cynical and pessimistic that their misery becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. In contrast, the other brother chooses to recognize the blessings in the same circumstances. (If you've read the Book of Mormon, you'll recognize the brothers in this story as Laman, Lemuel, and Nephi).

I have heard a lot of people say that happiness is a choice.  It's one of those clich├ęs that is completely accurate. We cannot avoid challenges and pain in life. We just can't. But we CAN choose how we will handle them. There was a quote in the book that said something about how there is no circumstance in life that cannot be made worse by complaining/whining about it. I think I used to have this idea that patience meant that you could wait for something, or keep at something even when it was hard. I didn't think much about how you waited or continued, as long as you did it.  But it's right there in the definition:
"Patience: the quality of being patient, as the bearing of provocation, annoyance, misfortune, or pain, without complaint, loss of temper, irritation, or the like.
These little things make a lot of sense, and I'm sure they're not new ideas to me or to you, but sometimes just hearing them at the right time, or thinking of them from a slightly different angle can make for an epiphany.


The book has a section at the end with resources for making the choices discussed in the first half of the book. This includes a section of FHE (Family Home Evening- or Family Night) helps with a ton of ideas for how to teach your family.  I really liked it, and it also has a section with a list of 100 Christlike Virtues and then tells you how you can make them into subjects for a Family Night lesson or use them as a jumping-off point for your own study.

Regardless of the stage of life you're in - whether you're engaged to be married, have children, or are single, this is a great book to read. It applies to so many different areas of life.  I found great ideas for how to teach my children, how to approach disagreements as a couple, and how to deal with personal struggles.


So, now I'm curious about your thoughts on the topic: 

Have you ever thought about happiness or love as a choice?

Is there something that helps you to be happy when things aren't ideal?

What about patience?

Disclosure: A copy of this book was provided for review purposes, but this is not a sponsored post and all opinions shared are, as always, my own.

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June 2015 Sharing Time - Week 3

Welcome to June's Sharing Time Linky!

Don't miss this week's round-up of over 25 Snacks & Treats for Summer Break-

There are some great ones on there & the post is featuring many of you who linked up to the Sharing Time Link Party last month!

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25+ Snacks & Treats for Summer Break

Here's a great collection of fun snacks & treats that you can make with or for your kids while they're home for summer break!  Many of these are features from the Sharing Time Link Party- thanks so much to everyone who links up!

June 2015 Sharing Time

Welcome to June's Sharing Time Linky!

Before we get to the party, here's a quick recap since the last Sharing Time:

This post is a blast from the past, but seemed perfect to share for this time of year:
Last year we did this Easy Backyard Camp Out and the post has some ideas if you want to plan one yourself!

This week, I shared some really cute Art Prints for Kids' Rooms that I found on Minted.com

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Wall Art Prints for Nursery & Children's Rooms

When I'm looking for party supplies or personalized cards, I will visit minted.com to check out their selection. It's fun to see what new products they've come out with since my last visit. Recently I was looking through their site and checking out their wall art. They have a ton of prints available that you can order framed, including nursery or children's art. They have so many cute things, that I thought it would be fun to share some of my favourites with you!

I found this adorable little family tree that you can add your own names to.  I love it! You can choose from a bunch of different frames for it, too.
I love the middle print (below) for a bathroom, and the 2 on the sides for bedrooms.

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